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No More Desire ™ Porn Addiction Recovery
What have you tried so far to quit porn? Accountability buddies, talk therapy, internet filters, church or religious programs, or mindfulness techniques to 'get rid of cravings'… Many of these have merit, but they're often missing key elements for long-lasting sobriety. It isn’t enough to just “stop watching porn”. Porn addiction is a symptom of deeper, underlying challenges that I address using evidence-based psychological and behavioral practices.
My mission isn't just to help people overcome porn addiction, but to give them each step to establish a recovery mindset and lifestyle. This is done using hands-on, daily exercises that retrain the brain and forge new habits that last a lifetime. Once this mindset and lifestyle are established, the desire for porn naturally fades.
To discover how to stop porn addiction, join my Intensive Porn Addiction Recovery Program at nomoredesire.com/program
No More Desire ™ Porn Addiction Recovery
94: From Half a Husband to a Whole Marriage | How to Rebuild Trust After Porn Addiction and Betrayal
Can a marriage truly heal after porn addiction and betrayal trauma? In this powerful episode of The No More Desire Podcast, host Jake Kastleman sits down with Matthew and Joanna Raabsmith—coaches, authors, and a couple who’ve walked the road from addiction and deception to deep connection and true intimacy.
👉 Grab your FREE DOWNLOAD of The 8 Tools to Heal from Porn Addiction & Betrayal Trauma Here.
👉 Grab the Raabsmith's Free Guide: The Honest Connection
In this episode, you’ll hear:
- The real impact of porn addiction in marriage
- How betrayal trauma affects the spouse of an addict—emotionally, neurologically, and relationally
- Why secrecy and double lives destroy intimacy—and how truth begins healing
- The difference between boundaries and control in recovery relationships
- Practical steps for rebuilding trust after porn addiction
- What it means to take full personal responsibility in addiction recovery
- Why most couples get stuck in imbalanced recovery dynamics—and how to shift them
- Tools from their Intimacy Pyramid framework that help couples reconnect emotionally, spiritually, and physically
Whether you're struggling with addiction, supporting a spouse who is, or both, this episode offers wisdom, validation, and hope. Matthew and Joanna are proof that recovery is possible, and that with the right tools, couples can move from surviving betrayal to thriving in renewed trust.
👉 Learn more about Matthew and Joanna’s work at RaabsmithTeam.com or order their book Building True Intimacy
🔗 For more episodes, recovery tools, and coaching support, visit NoMoreDesire.com
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